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Thursday, May 8, 2014

Random act of kindness, holidays and breaking the peace.

So far Spring has been great.  The weather has warmed up, the new volunteers have arrived, 55 of them, but I haven’t met any of them and I think I’ll have my grant money in time to get everything ready for my camp!  The fruit trees are all blooming and I can’t wait for fresh apricots and cherries soon.  Most of my time has been consumed preparing for camp.  We’ve been getting lessons ready, scavenging up flipcharts and markers from other volunteers since I don’t have money to buy our own yet to get lessons ready, and finalizing our resource book.  The next week I’ll be going with my counterpart and tutor to Bishkek for a short 2 day training on youth camps.  After that I’ll be spending the next week in Bishkek making books and buying supplies assuming I have the grant money by then.  I am also happy that our weekly English club is now done.  We are going on an ‘excursion’ to the lake on Saturday as a little end of the year party. 

I remember back during PST we learned about the “cycle of vulnerability and adjustment” it is a little chart that shows typical volunteer’s feelings during their service.  Around this time I should be experiencing my mid-service crisis, but knock on wood so far no crisis unless being out of creamy jif peanut butter counts!  In fact I’m feeling very exciting and optimistic about the upcoming months, in June I have my camp, then travel with my parents in Turkey then showing them around Kyrgyzstan, in July I just plan to go to the lake a lot, and do some hiking, come august we have our mid service conference and I’ll start working on my next project, toilets and hand washing stations!  The beginning of the school year will be busy with monitoring and evaluating for my camp and closing my grant out and planning the next project.  Then in October I get to go to the good ole’ US of A for a couple of weeks for my sister’s wedding along with Gator football, good beer, good food, and good friends.  I’m very exciting to go home but it will be weird traveling home on a short vacation.



Random act of kindness

Being a volunteer and a volunteer that looks very different from the majority of the population can be a drag.  People assume I don’t speak Kyrgyz, I don’t know how much things costs, and as a result many situations arise where I am talked about in front of me and locals try and rip me off.  I don’t care if people talk about me so that’s irrelevant to me, but I hate being ripped off.  I get where people are coming from when they try and get a little extra out of people that aren’t from the place and don’t know how much things cost, but that doesn’t make it right and I hate it just as much. At first I wasn’t sure how much everything cost, now I do.  And I refuse to pay when they try and charge more.  I even ooyat (shame) them when I am feeling in the mood.  This past weekend I was heading to Karakol to get some supplies for my camp.  Whenver I travel I bring a backpack with a little bit of stuff in it.  The trip to Karakol from my village cost 150 som ($3) always.  No matter how much luggage, or other things you have.  The ladies always bring their giant bags full of products from the bazar and are never charged extra.  When I got on the bus the guy tried to charge me 200 som.  I said no, I said it never costs that much, then he tried to tell me that gas is more expensive and I had a bag so it was 200.  BS!  Knowing it was BS I wouldn’t budge and give him the extra 50 som.  If you are in America reading this, an extra dollar is nothing, but when you live here, speak the language and live on a very small salary $1 is a lot!  Especially when someone is trying to cheat you.  So I wouldn’t give the driver the money then a young 10 year old kid who had befriended me at the bus stop gave the driver 50 som.  I then turned to him (Bek) and asked what are you doing don’t do that.  But he did.  Now I was pissed at the driver and felt like a jerk because this kid just paid.  I tried to give him the remaining 40 som in my wallet but he wouldn’t take it and showed me his 700 som (about $15) and said he was rich.  Of course this was money from his parents for the weekend.  Bek and I talked most of the trip until the bus filled up and some old out of shape middle aged woman made him get up so she could sit.  Once we got to Karakol the driver gave Bek his 50 som back!!! I felt victorious.  I then gave him some reese's candy I had that my parent had sent me.  Back in the village I’ve ran into Bek almost everyday.  He played kickball with us the other day and is coming on our excursion to the lake with my English club students on Saturday. 
Not Bek, but kickball
As volunteers we become very cynical towards Kyrgyzstan at times, the drunk men, the pushy women, the horrible food, the rude yet hospitable people, and more.  While what Bek did is really a small thing it was a big thing at the moment.  Like any place there are cheaters, drunks, and rude people and they often are the ones we remember but we are surrounded by so many more people like Bek all the time we just fail to take those moments in.

A random Kyrgyz lady who wanted me to take a picture of her and her cow while I was hiking

Holidays and breaking the peace

Holidays are huge in Kyrgyzstan.  In May I believe there are 4 or 5 government holidays.  For each holiday there are no classes, no work, and people get drunk.  We can thank the Soviet Union for the last one.  I bring this up because the drunks have been out en masse lately.  Normally there are a few in the center of my village but they stay there. Lately I’ve run into them in the stores, by my house, and saw one harassing an elderly lady.  This is madness.  Yesterday one reminded I wasn’t Kyrgyz so that was useful, I had almost forgot.  Today I had one ask me to buy him a jooz gram (100 grams of horrible alcohol) while I was getting some eggs, and as I mentioned there was a young 28ish year old guy screaming and pushing a woman who was at least 50.  That was unreal.  Fortunately their were other guys their trying to get him to chill out.  The holidays in May are all very nationalistic: the names according to Wikipedia, May 1st Kyrgyzstan People's Unity Day, May 5th Constitution day, May 8th remembrance day (carried over from the Soviet Union), and May 9th Great Patriotic War Against Fascism Victory Day (WW2).  These holidays give the men of Kyrgyzstan one more not needed excuse to get drunk and act obnoxious.  We even received a text alert from our Peace Corps safety and security officer saying “Tomorrow is victory day. Avoid angry drunks and beware of provocation due to anti-western sentiments in local media.”  I’ll be happy when the drunks move back into their homes and smoke filled billiard halls and off of the streets of the usually quiet and peaceful Karl Marx (my village).  Kyrgyzstan has also provided some history lessons during the holiday season, from a news headline “"Bishkek to host campaign 'We Have Won' dedicated to 69th anniversary of Victory in WWII,"” and another volunteer’s host brother informed her “As my host brother explained to me last year on WWII Victory Day: "Kyrgyzstan killed Hitler."”  I wish I was making this stuff up, I really do! I don't want to downplay the effects of WWII had on Kyrgyzstan in any way though, and almost 8% of the population of Kyrgyzstan died as a result of the war.  

I guess I can’t hate too much since we have plenty of drunk obnoxious overly patriotic Americans too.

Our village monument for WWII
Karl watches over us in front of our government building

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